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Forgiveness Is Not Absolution

took forgiveness for granted until someone truly, fundamentally, wronged me. I judged that only people who weren’t willing to put in the work would hold onto resentment over choosing to embrace forgiveness. I made up the story that those who clung to their wounds were helpless and hopeless, not worth the time taken to try and change their minds.

Does Sexual Experience Really Matter?

Before yesterday I hadn’t had sex in about a year. Shocking? Sad? Too much information? Maybe, but that’s for another story. The point is, it got me thinking about what makes good sex good and bad sex bad. When it comes to people who you actually WANT to be intimate with, of course! The answer may not be what you think…